question of Nusch : Why is my friend behave like this? Can you help me figure it out? I will start with a little history of our friendship and I will to the problem met for verschieben.Wir us in 08 when we went to school together. We only took one class, but we were pretty much inseparable. I was 21 and she was 18 at the time. Then, because Dad's job, she had to go to Texas, in 09-Transfer (we lived in "OK" at the time, I still do). We still kept in touch for a year and I started planning my wedding. She knew I wanted her to be my maid of honor and everything. Then, a month before the wedding, she told me she had a new boyfriend and her parents wanted him to come to the wedding with her, so as not to have to drive alone on the way to the "OK" and back to Texas . I agreed. They arrived at our house 2 days before my wedding. We had a very emotional moment when we saw each other again after more than a year. She and her friend stayed at home for 5 days or so. We had a great time and I liked the guy. She was very nice to her and very nice to us. Well, I have this extension: I am from Guatemala, it is coming from Ukraine, and their friend from Mexico. Anyway, after they left about a month and a half later, she and I text message and they told me that her father did not like her boyfriend. I asked her why and she said it because he did not "spoil" it was doing. I was like O_o! She said he did not buy their stuff or jewelry, or the like and the part of a relationship is in their culture. I said that does not mean that he did not love her. He has just graduated with a bachelor's degree in mechanical engineering and is working very much at the moment, but he makes big money, so she was angry that he did not buy their stuff, but he promised to take care of his mother, his little brother to take the training. I told her I did not see anything wrong. She said she was freaked out because they feared that if they married, he would not have her more attention than he cares for his family, and I told her that would change if they married, IF they married anyway. So she "was like all crazy about it and told me that his mother went over to visit her and gave her" the worst, ugliest, cheapest purse ever! "I was like, well, what does it look like and they sent me a picture of the purse was not ugly or anything, but she said:." It is as small and with blackened metal, as they always thought I would wear them "and I was really mad at her because I very ungrateful of her was because it is the intention that mattered and that if what they wanted was presents, she had better tell a rich Ukraininan friend. In any event, she asked me if I liked her friend and I said yes, but when her father was not happy with her, she had to pay attention to that ... Maybe he was right or something. Then she asked me to be honest his, her and I told her that I loved the guy, but I saw them together, because their cultures were too different from each other, and that could contribute to problems in the future, especially if they had certain expectations of him and he can not make So she said. "OK, well thank you, to be honest. Hopefully everything will work. "And I sent their Meinung.Dann, a few weeks later, I had tried it and its text and would not be answered, so I asked her what was wrong and she said that everything was order, and I told her that something was wrong because she would not talk to me and I did not know why. She said that everything was fine and she had only changed a lot. I was in shock. I tempted to ask several times what I piss off her and she would tell me she was good and avoid hurt me at all costs. So really my feelings, and I'm angry with her and really sad, because she told me, to be honest with her and thanked me for it and now she is not talking to me at all and I have no idea why they were. She and my husband like brother and sister, and she is not his phone calls, and he is on her mad and now he says I should just say to piss off her, but I want wissen.Damals I spoke the truth to her, I told her I was not going to disturb her anymore and I would wait until they are ready was to talk about it. But when I told her that I do not see how they together forever, it was not because of him, but because of it, because they go to him miserable if she keeps acting this way. How so immature and only cares about material things, but they should be able to ask about the sehen.Also I (and I have asked in the last 3 months), what happened to her? "They are still together; because I can see it on fb and talk forever, how perfect he is and stuff and I'm glad it worked out, but I'm mad they did not have the balls to tell me the truth, especially when I really thought we were Freunde.Und I also wonder if she told her friend what I said and he told her not to talk to me? But I was just trying to help, especially ihn.Ich hope I was clear and it took not too long to read this.) So today she texted me and told me that I say a hypocrite for her that she and her bf should not be together because it was different backgrounds ... but that is a lie, because my husband and I are from different backgrounds, so that not even make sense! she said that she was so hurt and that we each played the roles in our lives and it was time to drop the curtain, and she was sad, but that was for the best .... So all I can think of now is that she was a liar all the time our friendship. So I just poured my heart, in a letter to them and finished I told her I always be here for them, no matter what. I'm just tired of her doormat. I'll just pray for them so they can grow and see beyond money and things because they are not able to to meet with her when she dies, it makes me sad, but I'll get over it because I know I have nothing wrong Best Answer:.. Wed answer conn
Sounds like a spoiled girl, daddys only thought is of course to me, Sorry, but if anyone was like me, I would never again worry about with them, I am a 24 year old man from Ireland, so I know our cultures are different too, but spoiled and ungrateful isn't a culture with a bitch know better, please leave your answer in the comments!
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