Wedding Ring Hairloom ...?

question of ɐɔıssǝɾ : wedding ring Hairloom ...? I had a wedding ring that my fiance's grandmothers wedding ring was given. What are the manners when receiving a ring that someone else was? "I want my own wedding ring, That my love I have with my fiance do not love someone I never knew symbolizes. I do not try this sound snotty and mememe but is it not well? I hate the fact that it is worn by two other women. Would it be wrong to change that for the band to make it my taste? Well, maybe I was wrong with the word heirloom. It was not passed down through weddings. His grandmother had to buy it when his grandfather died in the mother. She thought of him all these years gehalten.Ich, it was wrong to change the ring, but my fiance said it was his doing what he wanted with it. Is there anything we should ask to whether its ok to change it or just not? My mother said I should have a good feeling, a ring with such an age. I think I would feel differently if the ring was from his mother's side rather then his fathers. I do not have a relationship with his fathers side of the family very viel.Ich have a lot to think. Do I want an OLD antiquated ring, but is worth a lot. or I want my own? I try hard not sound like a B **** but I've always wanted my own pick. Perhaps the old ring is not so bad? I do not know! It was just a cocktail ring, I just found out. Changes the one you think Best Answer: Wed response from Tinker balla
Whatever you do, do not change the ring in any way. If you do not want the heirloom (note the spelling), then tell your fiance and you two should pick out a new ring. but it would be very unpleasant and rude changed the ring if it meant so much for the women in his family. If you do not want it, have him give it back to the last owner. They do not get two rings, it is either a new or old, as ist.Ich am surprised that most women value and more than a new heirloom ring. It's more unique, it has a great story, and it symbolizes the success of the generations before you. It gives you something to give to your own children. I must say I disagree with you on this one, but you are welcome to your own feelings and opinions, so make sure to cope with the situation with the Gnade.EDIT: if it's not a wedding or engagement ring, if It was just a cocktail ring, then they stopped and wear it as a cocktail ring! But tell your FI, you need less than one Verlobungsring.Wenn it very much sentimental value your FI have to ask if it okay to change the setting. Do not be there when he asks if you are not there they just be honest and say it is ok, but really sad darüber.Wenn they say it is OK to change the setting, then I guess green light, but remember, the value drops.

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