question from Sally : manipulative in-laws as wedding gifts, I got very cheap gifts (cheap cotton / synthetic sari - of a kind can only be worn at home or, where maids ) from wealthy in-laws (they have an apartment in a big city, a car and travel by plane), can / should I be offended? They also said it is for the bride, a part of her jewelry in her parents' loosely hold traditionally - if we do not live with them -? anyone else of this "tradition" is one of them asked me for 15,000 rupees for the purchase of gifts for my sister-in-law, this "tradition" or dowry, we had a love marriage, not ordered. but my parents are such emotional blackmail and competent brain washing that I can not distinguish "tradition" of manipulation not mehr.wir are Indian and I'm not familiar with traditions, so I never know whether the requirements of my parents-term comfortable " traditions are "legitimate or nicht.Spind = term for bank safe deposit box in India Best Answer: Wed reply kittykatsback
Sorry, but you are all about the money . And the whole "love match" please, then why care about the presents? What do you think? Answer below!
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