I'm going to be sick to my stomach?

question of supergoober : I'm going to be sick to my stomach To begin our wedding budget 5000.00 so low, but that's all we can afford?. Now I sat down last night and went out of my list of things I had / book (I already booked the site) and now once I thought that I burst into tears! Here is what I have and please tell me what I can cut out / down site, food, champagne, wine, soft drinks, Gazebo Flowers & DJ: $ 2,920.24 Jr. Bridesmaid dress alterations (daughter) $ 80.00 Flower Girl Dress (daughter) & $ 30.00Hair Piece Bridal Jewelry $ 90.00 Flower $ 550.00 $ 1400.00 Photographer Grooms Suit: $ 160.00Minister & tip: $ 425.00Gästebuch / Flower Girl Basket / pillows: 40.00 wedding dress alterations: $ 200.00Schuhe (bride, flower G., Jr. Bridesmaid) $ 60.00Brides Hair: $ 75.00Make-Up: $ 58.00 $ 50.00Bevorzugungen decoration for the head table: $ 30.00 wedding gifts (4): $ 100.00Heiratserlaubnis: $ 75.00Sauberkeit wedding dress (I bought a used dress) $ 175.00 $ 1800.00 Wedding Hotel 1 night 2 room (wedding is out of town) $ 325.00 TOTAL: 8643.24 $ The first line can not be cut down. Our rings, we thought if we bought him a basic gold band and me the ring, which could not with my ring, we cut out over more than $ 400,00, but I'm in tears. Not because of my ring, but for his. I will give him the ring that he would take his life. Not a cheap ring, we replace, if we afford können.Der photographer. I have 25 photographers in the area, and that the best offer I think ist.Blumen. This is only the boquet and rose petals on the sidewalk and flower girl. Thats it. I can not better Preis.Da our marriage is no small way to the cost of gooms Anzug.HILFE! I have cried over this since last night. We can not come with the extra money and there is no one who forgot us with the means to add helfen.Ich. This is among the guests to 40 people.The dress is bad it has dog hair and it is dirty. There are no cracks or tears or stains in the dirt. I need to clean werden.Ich know everyone always says this is expensive for a minister, and I agree! However, we got married in Napa CA. I have called over 20 ministers, and I can not find cheaper! He is 375.00 plus tip thank you very much! I have actually just started calling local churches and finish the list looking for the wedding site and I booked a minister at 120.00 today, and the sample contains and this pastor was wonderful! I also loved the idea Costco flower. I had no idea that they are! I found a photographer through the church, and he is less than 1 / 2 price of the other guy and his website is decorated with beautiful photos he has done, filled. This saved money there. Even my future mil is a very smart woman and she is to the pillow, flower girl basket and fabric a little photo album as a little gift to us (she is in such a disability can not afford much) the same. I will go with earrings and search e-bay tonight. I am so glad that I wrote and I feel so much better. Thank you so so so much Best Answer: Wed reply nova_queen_28
The rings are expensive. Sorry, but we are on a budget, and I got a beautiful ring for me for under $ 125 and my FH's is only 105 $ . If you bought a simple ring, one could easily cut $ 1,500 to the right of this budget. I think this will be a quick "win" if you cut it - - the lower your deficit in the Hälfte.Können do you have a family member on the changes for you? Or even try to nose craigslist, getan.Reinigung it for less clothing - - how bad is it? Could you possibly buy a steamer on craigslist and clean it yourself or is it * need * a formal clean gehen.Können cut the wine or is it a must? I would cut all alcohol from my wedding when I'm on a tighter budget waren.Hair & Make-up - - you can use this yourself or a friend, the well could be that it is for your minister is also a bit? expensive. I'm only one payment of $ 250 and $ 50 to tip. This could not change, but perhaps umsehen.Hochzeitsfeier gifts. $ 25 per person is very reasonable, but if you an idea of ​​what you want, wait for a sale to theknot.com and hook 'em for less. My fiance has that for the best man - he wanted flask. We saved a bundle!

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