How would you feel if your husband did this?

question of ritzysmom : How would you feel if your husband did this This year was our 20th? Wedding anniversary. It came and husband did not say a thing or a word. I was just so hurt because he was not even at least to me a card that day, I could not even stand the thought of talking to him. It's not like he got 30 days' notice that our 20th Anniversary, Geesh I was telling him not to forget the whole year, was in what year. Then in the morning 3 days after our anniversary, he asked, "what shall we do for our anniversary?". I just looked at him and told him it would have been nice to have known since our anniversary was 3 days ago. He acted like it was no big deal, he got the date wrong. He said I wanted the ring I would Abou spoken for years. Years ago he had promised, he'd told me about a wedding ring with a diamond in it instead of a chip (his father had given him a real ring when proposing he wanted, and convinced him, a cheap little gold ring obtained with no visible chips because he does not want it to be a lot of money if I went the way he did --- fil first woman's husband told me when he gave me the ring that would otherwise never know and I really think I would have been fine and have my ring to my life's end if he had not told me the facts). I went on, the new ring for our 10th anniversary, because we were stationed overseas and could not afford. I gave the ring a long time ago. I stopped mentioning it after I lost the chip from my old ring and it took him 7 years ago after 2 years before he even mentioned to replace him. He went to a jewelry shop in the mall and got a cheap stone, which was a little bigger and put it on top of the old teeth. The ring looks really bad and out of balance, but I bit my tongue and said nothing about when he brought her home. He still has no money for a decent stone, let alone a new ring. He's collecting his credit card for years on restaurants, toys and books, which always excited his attention, to the tune of $ 20,000 this month as a whole. I do not want a ring when it comes to adding more our fault --- I want to be able to buy a house if he from the army in a few years into retirement means, but we have all these debts, no savings and 4 children (one juvenile and three children under school age). He could not understand, and jumped in his neck that I was ungrateful. And he's still not for me, as much as a card, and that was Wochen.Ich had a card for him, I did not intend it to him to give up our anniversary he had anerkannt.Ich not in any way the stupid ring before our 10 Birthday, so no, I had not mentioned it nagging about it. It comes with stuff from WAY in the past. He bought head scarves as a souvenir when he was stationed in Kuwait in 2006, because it I had a hard time, scarves that are as large enough to have said about my broad shoulders drape. But II had not bought or scarves worn since 1993.Ich have never cared a fig about most of our anniversary, the milestone only those 10, 20 He is the one that a big hairy deal about birthdays and anniversaries and gifts makes Christmas. He gets in a tizzy because I do not care to celebrate my birthday. So I was a little surprised that he accepted nothing planned or even card / flowers for such a special milestone. I wanted to recognize a card to be talking to him and the army for 20 years Best Answer. Wed reply to say what?
Yikes! I would upset me - this is a pretty big milestone to forget. My husband would be in the doghouse for a long time for this one ...

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