How do I explain that I do not want this diamond?

question of Silent_J : How can I explain that I do not know diamonds Each time I speak to marry with my boyfriend, he is very rigid and uncompromising, what? . our wedding will be "I'm a traditionalist," he says, "And you will wear a white dress and we will get married in a church," and so on and on and on and refused to everything I propose hören.Das biggest problem I have with this is that it keeps getting put off the engagement until he can give me a Verlobungsring.Ich no jewelry. I can not bear. I thought I was crazy about wrestling, especially because I somewhat webbed fingers, so rings do not fit well to wear on me. But I promised him I would have the wedding band he got me because he is the most important tradition says tragen.Hier the thing is: I will never wear the engagement ring, because I hate rings. I do not want a diamond because I do not think they are all so important, not to mention we not afford diamonds on one of our salaries. If he's going to fight me, I would rather it earlier (with a good / meaningful ring) than later (when he can afford to get a diamond ring). Is that too much to ask, what do you think Yahoo Answers? How can I tell him I do not want a diamond, I just want to beat him Best Answer: Wed reply BobJohnston
Remind him that it Your wedding is to try and make a compromise on the ring, tell him your issues with the engagement ring and tell him honestly that some traditions OK to be flexible with.

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