Unhappily married woman?

question by Kathi R :? unhappily married woman I unfortunately married a long time to buy. got a long story short, we met in 1997, I was pregnant & Son in 1998, and we got married four months before son was born. We separated for 6 months because he seemed incredibly selfish to me. My view is this: if you marry a woman you admire and cherish her and she will do the same for you. He is not a "sensitive feely" type of person who does not kiss very well ... do not treat me like just in general I think a good man should treat his wife. Well, he's a good provider and a good father to our two children ... but that's it. When I ask him for money or gas money to make my hair or just something for me, he looks at me as I have a 3rd Eye on the forehead! He pays for all of our Utilities & 1 / 2 of the mortgage. I pay the other half. My complaint? He does not care about me. Call it selfish if need, but he works third Layer so that all parents will rely on me (to sports games Shuttle Back and Forth, practices, rehearsals and nights, etc.), and all the cleaning and cooking. We do not have a "sex life" ... it is once a month maybe. We have no other married friends over because he is not a very good social skills (my opinion). When he introduces himself to people, he has a James Bond rendition of his name (and he is not a joke). He takes no advice from anyone using his parents as a baby sitter, if he wants, but if they want to pick only the children, so he "remember". He dresses in the same clothes he had when he was a newbie so in school, when we discovered that he go was terrible looks, has not a single piece of jewelry bought for me (with the exception of the cheap wedding ring, where the stones fell out), doesn 't get regular hair cuts, hair has bumps on his face (we are black and it looks terrible), not wear out Cologne ... He's just not what I want. Why do I stay? Because we have two children 9 and 10, and I could not afford when I left. I left before the year 2001, but went back because in this case - it is cheaper him advice on halten.Ich need. Should I use a little something "anything" on the page? Deal with it until the kids are gone, then Jet? Oh - one last thing ... We have gone to counseling, after we came back together in 2001. He does not like to "tell people its business" so that it has not worked. His own family did not even know what he is not a life! I told his parents what he does, but he does not want them to know, has his cell phone number, he never like to get his e-mail to our home address so he uses a PO Box, since I know him .. . when I look at him my first thought is: ". You are so raggedy and I do not know what I saw in you, if someone gave me money to leave, or when I won the lottery, I would be gone tomorrow." Frankly, I do not think it would matter to him if I left, but he had tooth and nail for the children to kämpfen.Um few comments 1) I have bought him several items of clothing, or expired tags spa certificate. I bought him flying lessons, an antique clock for our anniversary ... I have nothing. 2) I've had a good job for the last 10 years. "The $ $ is not the point. He's just not a generous person. and 3) My kids are well adjusted and centered. I'm not planning to parade a naked man in my house! Please! I would love to feel sexy, and wanted ... I want to feel like a woman. . Not a Roommate Best Answer: Wed response from Jose L
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